I wanted to open up a discussion because this keeps trickling past my desk of paperwork lately. People disliking other people OOC'ly.
We on the Sundren staff try to be as unbiased as possible when it comes to characters and players. Although people joining the server without reading anything and poking us on DM chat asking "Why can't I get in the server with my L/G tiefling paladin of Torm?" gets irritating at times. <_< >_>
However, players sometimes don't seem to be able to be unbiased alot of times. IC actions should NEVER become OOC animosity. Chances are if you are starting to hate people OOC then you are the one in the wrong, not the other person. On the rare ocasion people break rules or push them to the limits so you end up getting upset, but even then people are generally not doing it to give you a bad day. So I wanted to raise a few points people need to remember.
1) Some people do not know FR and D&D as much as you. Some of you are scary to me with how deep your knowledge of FR and D&D is. I wonder if it's all you eat and sleep at times. But that's why I often have to reference you guys to understand more about the world. I got books I read and study to understand, but you can't expect every player to be able to do the same. Some simply own NWN2 and want to play online and roleplay, should you treat them as inferior or badmouth them as they stuggle to learn what you've been studying half of some of your lives? I definitely don't. Do you try to guide people or do you beat it into their heads?
2) Some people are not as skilled at RP as you. Some are VERY new to the whole concept, Sundren being the first PW for them. Do you treat them as inferior because they don't have the talents? Or do you set and example and offer friendly help when called upon?
3) Conflicts are going to happen. Sorry people, it's the way things work. You have goals, and other players have goals that stop yours. Whether it's "I'm going to be the best wizard ever!" and some guy shouts at you because he feels "Magic is too dangerous to wield!" You guys are going to be at odds. You can take that fight OOC "OMG THAT GUY SHOULD KNOW MAGIC IS NOT DANGEROUS!!!" and then hate him for what his character does, or you can go with the RP and have a rival which can lead to some RP.
Some tips I have found that help alot, not all of these you have to do:
* If something gets particularly heated where your characters are at odds. Sometimes just saying "I'm not trying to pick on you, but my character's a slowmo jerk " can make someone enjoy a friendly OOC relationship with their IC bitter enemies.
* Don't try to do ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER to screw up your enemies. Sometimes letting them slide can help the RP. Be the loser sometimes. Get headbutted by Hrogash and fall on your back while he walks away laughing. It can be fun to RP being a loser more than a winner sometimes. Don't try to work your butt off to bring people to the authorities ALL THE TIME, because chances are, we'll let them go depending on how they were caught and how they've been adding to the server. We're not out to try to permakill people, so should you be?
* Keep in mind who the other player is. People new to the server might be struggling with lore, FR, and many other things. Immediately snapping on them and making an already frustrating time more frustrating can cause them to groan at the thought of more RP.
* Stay unbiased and IC! STAY IC WITH YOUR ACTIONS! If someone gets to be your enemy IC, don't use OOC ways to mess them up! This will be where you cross the line with me. I will hunt you down, and put fiberglass under your fingernails.
* Remember, while FR has large amounts of lore, Sundren is still an adaptation of that lore. Some things we do in Sundren may not be exactly how D&D FR does it because some things just don't work out on PWs with their close knit hero/villain base. P&P has a small group of high levels running around. Sundren has over a thousand. As you can see, we are kind of forced to change up some things. So while what you do in P&P might make sense, in Sundren it might not.
We on the Sundren staff try to be as unbiased as possible when it comes to characters and players. Although people joining the server without reading anything and poking us on DM chat asking "Why can't I get in the server with my L/G tiefling paladin of Torm?" gets irritating at times. <_< >_>
However, players sometimes don't seem to be able to be unbiased alot of times. IC actions should NEVER become OOC animosity. Chances are if you are starting to hate people OOC then you are the one in the wrong, not the other person. On the rare ocasion people break rules or push them to the limits so you end up getting upset, but even then people are generally not doing it to give you a bad day. So I wanted to raise a few points people need to remember.
1) Some people do not know FR and D&D as much as you. Some of you are scary to me with how deep your knowledge of FR and D&D is. I wonder if it's all you eat and sleep at times. But that's why I often have to reference you guys to understand more about the world. I got books I read and study to understand, but you can't expect every player to be able to do the same. Some simply own NWN2 and want to play online and roleplay, should you treat them as inferior or badmouth them as they stuggle to learn what you've been studying half of some of your lives? I definitely don't. Do you try to guide people or do you beat it into their heads?
2) Some people are not as skilled at RP as you. Some are VERY new to the whole concept, Sundren being the first PW for them. Do you treat them as inferior because they don't have the talents? Or do you set and example and offer friendly help when called upon?
3) Conflicts are going to happen. Sorry people, it's the way things work. You have goals, and other players have goals that stop yours. Whether it's "I'm going to be the best wizard ever!" and some guy shouts at you because he feels "Magic is too dangerous to wield!" You guys are going to be at odds. You can take that fight OOC "OMG THAT GUY SHOULD KNOW MAGIC IS NOT DANGEROUS!!!" and then hate him for what his character does, or you can go with the RP and have a rival which can lead to some RP.
Some tips I have found that help alot, not all of these you have to do:
* If something gets particularly heated where your characters are at odds. Sometimes just saying "I'm not trying to pick on you, but my character's a slowmo jerk " can make someone enjoy a friendly OOC relationship with their IC bitter enemies.
* Don't try to do ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER to screw up your enemies. Sometimes letting them slide can help the RP. Be the loser sometimes. Get headbutted by Hrogash and fall on your back while he walks away laughing. It can be fun to RP being a loser more than a winner sometimes. Don't try to work your butt off to bring people to the authorities ALL THE TIME, because chances are, we'll let them go depending on how they were caught and how they've been adding to the server. We're not out to try to permakill people, so should you be?
* Keep in mind who the other player is. People new to the server might be struggling with lore, FR, and many other things. Immediately snapping on them and making an already frustrating time more frustrating can cause them to groan at the thought of more RP.
* Stay unbiased and IC! STAY IC WITH YOUR ACTIONS! If someone gets to be your enemy IC, don't use OOC ways to mess them up! This will be where you cross the line with me. I will hunt you down, and put fiberglass under your fingernails.
* Remember, while FR has large amounts of lore, Sundren is still an adaptation of that lore. Some things we do in Sundren may not be exactly how D&D FR does it because some things just don't work out on PWs with their close knit hero/villain base. P&P has a small group of high levels running around. Sundren has over a thousand. As you can see, we are kind of forced to change up some things. So while what you do in P&P might make sense, in Sundren it might not.
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