First off I should say that I speak only for myself, not the other DMs, but I suspect they're probably on the same page. Also, this relates to IC stuff, not to things like "I'm stuck in an area" or "my faction rep seems to have reset".
It's good for people to have goals for their PCs, and I like to help people realise them, or I wouldn't DM to start with. That said, here's how you can help me to help you.
Don't tell me your goal, tell me what you plan to do!
That might sound fairly minor, but the difference is in fact huge! I'm of the opinion that rules should make sense, so I shall explain myself.
Example 1
Telling me your goal: My PC wants to become a corrupt copper, can you run an event for me?
Translation of that request: Can you please, off the cuff, devise, set up, and run an event/RP for me? This is a big ask. I don't neccesarily know your PC that well, or have any ready made ideas up my sleeve for an appropriate RP. The chances that you'll get anything out of me with a request like that are virtually zero, not because I don't like you or don't want to help, but because it's asking a lot.
Now, let's alter the request slightly!
Telling me your plan: As part of his bid to become a bent copper, my PC would like to try and shake down the following shopkeep/tavern owner/whatever.
Translation of this request: Will you help me with a specific action I want to take? This is not a big ask (unless it's something like assassinating Abbot Proscus, or finding a dragon to play dice with). Something like this can be done off the cuff very easily. I can't speak for others, but once I get started on RPs then more ideas generally come to me and things often develop further.
Example 2
Telling me your goal: I want to obtain the following item, will you help me?
Translation: Please devise/run event/RP for me from scratch. Big ask.
Telling me your plan: (1) I'd like to try and steal it from person X with the following plan. (2) I'd like to speak to some merchants in the Exigo about finding such a thing. etc..
Translation: I'd like to take a specific action to try and achieve my goal. Not a big ask.
The same's true for getting feats and so forth (How are you going to try and get it?).
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The difference between asking for something flat out, and presenting an intended course of action is enormous from a DM's perspective. One shifts all the work on to us, the other means that we can respond to what you're after.
This isn't in any way an attempt to put people off making requests, it's simply an attempt to explain what sorts of requests I'm likely to respond to, and the reasons why. If this is unclear, or seems unreasonable, please feel free to ask questions or raise concerns.
It's good for people to have goals for their PCs, and I like to help people realise them, or I wouldn't DM to start with. That said, here's how you can help me to help you.
Don't tell me your goal, tell me what you plan to do!
That might sound fairly minor, but the difference is in fact huge! I'm of the opinion that rules should make sense, so I shall explain myself.
Example 1
Telling me your goal: My PC wants to become a corrupt copper, can you run an event for me?
Translation of that request: Can you please, off the cuff, devise, set up, and run an event/RP for me? This is a big ask. I don't neccesarily know your PC that well, or have any ready made ideas up my sleeve for an appropriate RP. The chances that you'll get anything out of me with a request like that are virtually zero, not because I don't like you or don't want to help, but because it's asking a lot.
Now, let's alter the request slightly!
Telling me your plan: As part of his bid to become a bent copper, my PC would like to try and shake down the following shopkeep/tavern owner/whatever.
Translation of this request: Will you help me with a specific action I want to take? This is not a big ask (unless it's something like assassinating Abbot Proscus, or finding a dragon to play dice with). Something like this can be done off the cuff very easily. I can't speak for others, but once I get started on RPs then more ideas generally come to me and things often develop further.
Example 2
Telling me your goal: I want to obtain the following item, will you help me?
Translation: Please devise/run event/RP for me from scratch. Big ask.
Telling me your plan: (1) I'd like to try and steal it from person X with the following plan. (2) I'd like to speak to some merchants in the Exigo about finding such a thing. etc..
Translation: I'd like to take a specific action to try and achieve my goal. Not a big ask.
The same's true for getting feats and so forth (How are you going to try and get it?).
................
The difference between asking for something flat out, and presenting an intended course of action is enormous from a DM's perspective. One shifts all the work on to us, the other means that we can respond to what you're after.
This isn't in any way an attempt to put people off making requests, it's simply an attempt to explain what sorts of requests I'm likely to respond to, and the reasons why. If this is unclear, or seems unreasonable, please feel free to ask questions or raise concerns.



Tell us what you are going to DO to accomplish your goals, and we'll assist!

Shiv Shadowsong
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