Not missing your point at all. I understand exactly what your trying to say.
Soul is correct. People just are not good at taking critiscism. It then manifest itself in behavior, bad mood, bad feelings. Unless people are willingly submitting themselves up for criticism as suggested, or like your student magazine, people don't want to hear it.
Voluteering for it would work I suppose. Even that may breed a bit of hard feelings.
Wife: "Honey, do I look fat in these jeans?"
Hubby: "Well, actually, since you are asking, they make your ass look big."
or "Well, actually, since you are asking, they make your buttocks appear of a slightly inflated nature."
*SMACK*
Either way, it is still hard to take.
Soul is correct. People just are not good at taking critiscism. It then manifest itself in behavior, bad mood, bad feelings. Unless people are willingly submitting themselves up for criticism as suggested, or like your student magazine, people don't want to hear it.
Voluteering for it would work I suppose. Even that may breed a bit of hard feelings.
Wife: "Honey, do I look fat in these jeans?"
Hubby: "Well, actually, since you are asking, they make your ass look big."
or "Well, actually, since you are asking, they make your buttocks appear of a slightly inflated nature."
*SMACK*
Either way, it is still hard to take.


. But seriously... perhaps this is a good idea, but it seems like the sort of thing that might encourage or reward cliqueyness (and nothing is worse for an RP server than serious cliques). It seems likely to me that such a system will lead to RP buddies reinforcing each others behaviours (without neccesarily having any good reason), and to people making negative comments over IC behaviour that they don't like even if it is good RP.
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