This subject has been breeched a thousand times, and will never have a firm solution. Regardless, I'd like to ask that you think twice before you do something irrevocable to another PC. Consider the situations below, and discuss! 
BTW, I'm all for hardcore. I'm pro-perma, for example. You make your bed, you lie in it. However, I've recently been faced with two situations where my bed has been made for me, and I think they were due to some questionable judgement calls by the other player.
1) The Ever-Vigilant Paladin Eyes
2) Considerations Before Events
All thoughts are welcome. Like I said, I think this will be an on-going discourse that never changes in NWN2. But I hope to influence future decisions by bringing these events forward.

BTW, I'm all for hardcore. I'm pro-perma, for example. You make your bed, you lie in it. However, I've recently been faced with two situations where my bed has been made for me, and I think they were due to some questionable judgement calls by the other player.
1) The Ever-Vigilant Paladin Eyes
- The Situation in a Nut Shell:
A group of PCs are chatting socially in the city.
My character walks up to join the conversation.
Paladin Fred, whom I have never met before, squints his eyes at me and pronounces me evil. - My Take:
Detect Evil is not passive. It is a free action, and thus requires decision and effort. For a paladin to use this ability on everyone he meets, without provocation, is silly. Just because you can do it, doesn't mean you should.
2) Considerations Before Events
- The Situation in a Nutshell:
We are preparing for a big DM event. Some PCs showed up early; others were still gathering. DMs asked us to wait patiently while they set up the event.
PCs are speaking socially in the meantime.
DMs are ready, and the event begins.
Almost immediately, my character is publicly called out for having a "faint undead aura" in front of about ten PCs and an army of soldiers the DMs put in place. - My Take:
Understand that coordinating an event with multiple people, server-wide, takes time and effort. Getting people together for this requires OOC tells and considerations. One of these is understanding the duration of spells.
Yes, my character always has a Non-Detection spell memorized. Should I have used it while the DMs asked us, OOCly, to wait? Does that passage of time "count" as IC? What happens when the spell then expires? Re-cast it in front of the army, unsuspiciously?
Send me a simple tell before you do something like that. Consider the preparations going on around you, and that, even if your character likes to "blurt things out" ICly, there are OOC considerations to make. You can't reverse it once it's done.
All thoughts are welcome. Like I said, I think this will be an on-going discourse that never changes in NWN2. But I hope to influence future decisions by bringing these events forward.






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